glitter, sparkle, and shine

happy new year!  wow, 2014!

here’s to an amazing year past.  2013 was full of joy, laughter, love, family, friends, and many blessings!  the most joyous event of the year?  our baby girl olive!  finding out i was pregnant since february and being on this journey almost this entire past year has been eye opening, life changing, and miraculous.

i love seeing the glass half full all the time, so any bumps in the road this past year has truly been for the better…learning from your mistakes, forgiving others or yourself, do something better for anyone, and try, try again.

thank you for my family, thank you to my family.  my greatest support system.  through trials and turbulence, family will always be there no matter what.  i am blessed to have this through the doan’s and the heintz’s.  two wonderful families, truly special people…hc and i are so fortunate to be surrounded by such strong foundations.

thank you to my friends who always stand by me.  they are the most amazing people and i am lucky to be surrounded by such good people.  as life goes on, it’s good to have some solid peeps in there.

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we spent our new year’s eve with friends and family.  we trekked our way out in this crazy weather to have dinner at rpm.  i loved the ambience and the food was delicious!  so freakin’ yummy.

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[don’t mind me a glass of presecco]

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[our artsy, dramatic attempt]

we settled in at the bar, waiting for the rest of our party to arrive.  it’s great when you live 10 minutes away and no one is really on the road!  we ordered drinks and conversed our time away.  since everyone was running a bit behind {holy snow!}, we decided to order apps.  we had the smoked salmon crostini, prime beef meatballs, gnocchi alla romana, and the crispy ravioli.  small bites that were way too small ’cause every morsel was so yummy, i wanted more!

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[the ladies bedazzled for the evening…obviously i don’t know which direction to look at]

anyhoo, our party finally got there {phew!  safe and sound!}, and we were seated!  yay!  and away we went with our over consumption of food for the evening!

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[festive attire // dress – last season’s akira]

we ordered a whole bunch of plates to share.  i loved tasting all the different flavors.  we then moved onto desserts…i had the tartufo, so decadent!

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[our pasta course // my yummy tartufo]

it was a snowy, wintery night for a new years’s eve celebration.

After dinner, we headed back home to ring in the new year with olive and hc’s family.

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[midnight kiss]

on new year’s day, we celebrated with a fun breakfast.  Complete with sparkles, mimosas, and lots o coffee!  it was a perfect beginning to a fabulous new year!

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[our new year’s table spread!]

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[starting off the new year right…family and a super yummy breakfast by hc]

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[olive’s one month birthday cake]

papa insisted on having cake for olive’s one month.  ask and you shall receive.  i love a good ol’ home baked cake!

cheers!

xoxo

happy one month!

happy one month baby olive!

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[the little peanut // photos taken on 12.27]

length: 21 1/4″

weight: 9lbs. 1oz.

i can’t believe she’s already a month in age.  her cheeks are chubbier.  her awareness is more acute.  she smiles.  she gurgles.  she hollers like a pterodactyl when she sleeps.  she loves to lay around and absorb her surroundings with her wide eyes.  it’s so amazing to watch her grow!

she is so adorable.  she is growing by the minute and it’s so cool to see her personality and reactions to us.  happy one month baby girl!  we love you so much!

xoxo

oooo baby feet!

i just wanted to post for everyone some cute baby tootsies!  who doesn’t love little bebe feet?!  those feet that kicked me non-stop in the womb.  i could always feel her little heels poking against my skin or my ribs {ouch!}!  it’s so surreal to feel her sharp little heels in the flesh.  to see those adorable little toes.

hc likes to call her a kick boxer/swimmer.  she has strong little legs when she’s a hollering and she flails her arms like she’s a swimmer.  future career goals?!  🙂

everyone who comes to meet little olive love to touch and look at her little footsies.  i think it’s the only time people really, really love feet.  after that, it’s all down hill from there isn’t it?!

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here she is curling her toes and footsies all up on her diapy, under her sleeper.  quite adorable.  that’s all.

xoxo

updated bebe’s room

there have been some final touches to the bebe’s room!  you can see the room coming together here.  also, some very sweet friends have sent the cutest packages to us!  so kind!

baby h is so spoiled already!

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a little bundle!  such a cute package sent to us from b!  thank you so much, it contained so many fun items…i love how the contents are for mommy and baby!  high quality, hand crafted, functional, organic pieces!  so stinkin’ adorbs!

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we are so excited for our bookcase!  it’s the perfect addition to the room.  it houses all the random stuff perfectly…it helps organize some of the chaos!

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unwrapping a cute door delivery from o!  thank you so much for the personalized print, so cute and perfect for her room.  we love it…such a sweet gift.

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what an awesome gift from olivia!  how great does that look?!

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jonathan adler lion night light from johann and matt.  we absolutely love it…i know i keep saying this but it’s so perfect for the room!  thank you so much guys!

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we love the sequin pillow from kar and kt…and i love the ruffled crib skirt!  perfect final touches to the nursery.

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i love the changing table and the rattan diaper/essential holder, from tracy!  we have the wipes, diapers, butt paste, and all the other necessities for keeping her bum clean!

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we also have the white rattan hamper {for all those dirty clothes, sheets, and changing mats that she will spit on, pee on, and poop on…oh, baby!} and the storage box from pbk.  embroidered personally for miss olive with grey floss and trimmings!

the bebe’s room is ready to go!  it’s a small but mighty room.  so many cute, adorable, and fun decor…all suited for this little lady’s style {or perhaps, more so her momma’s style!}.

thanks so much to everyone for contributing to little olive’s abode!

xoxo

deck the halls

we decided to deck the halls a weekend earlier than usual because we weren’t sure when the babes would come {she kept us in suspense}!  little did we know we did the right thing!

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[coffee, quiche, fruit, and juice]

we started out the morning with hc’s homemade quiche!  so delish!  i’m so spoiled by him! it was a very relaxing morning.  we agreed to have a totally lazy day!

hc did all the leg work.  he brought up all the holiday decor from the storage room and we were ready to go right after brunch {actually right after our very long nap!}  ha!  i was tired! yes, even though i just woke up, i was still tired so a nap was in order…it was super comfy sleeping in the nook of hc’s arm.

so, finally, we got up and started on the decorating!  we blasted the christmas music to get ourselves into the festive mood!

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[a holiday must!]

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[unwrapping all the fun ornaments]

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[hc doing his best fluffing the garland…he wouldn’t let the preggo wifey do it]

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[ornaments housed in bird cake stands]

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[i love festive pillows!  it just adds a holiday pop to the room]

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[bar wear :)]

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[ooohhhh, pretty]

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[my hand made card holder from last year!]

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[my hand made snow globes, holly, and silver mercury votive holders]

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[ho ho ho, welcome in!]

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[i love fresh pine!]

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[tree topping!  uh, this year, i was in no condition to be carried or picked up by hc to put the star on the tree!]

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[oh, christmas tree!  how pretty!!!!]

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[the delicious meal hc whipped up after a hard day of decorating!  love him!]

i love decorating for the holidays!  it’s been a joy of mine since i was a child.  decking the halls so gets me in the festive mood!  it’s so pretty, fun, and brings back so many fond memories of holidays past.

i still have a bit of final touches to do but overall, i’m feeling the holiday spirit!

happy holidays everyone!

xoxo

happy birthday olive harper!

happy birthday to our little baby girl!

olive harper

born on 11.27.13

at 4:13am

weighing in at 7 lbs. 10 oz.

measuring at 20 inches!

wow!  i obviously took a small hiatus on blogging {i have a few posts to publish that are a bit behind but never the less worth a current post!} to spend time with my family.  it’s been such a roller coaster of a ride!

as crazy as it sounds, i published my last blog post while i was in labor!  i know that sounds crazy but it was already written {it was legit and i did want to share, since i really did make it to my 40 week mark!} and all i could do was sit at home, through my contractions, with nothing to do!

i’m going to write olive’s birthing story soon {can’t wait to share}, i definitely found giving birth a totally amazing experience.  i have this new found lens of women, women being pregnant, and women being able to give birth to a life that changes everything.

this baby girl came into our world and it just makes life such a happier place.  she’s so sweet and we love her so much!!!

i am sooo excited to share her baby photos!  thank you, thank you to tricia from patricia anderson photography!  she was absolutely amazing.  her photos are so sweet and beautifully shot.  of course, having the cutest little subject does help!

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[a sneak peek at tricia’s studio]

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[love this, it makes me cry]

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[tired mom hanging out while the babes is getting her first photos done // i love the backdrop]

 little olive was not being cooperative, even though we kept her awake before the photo shoot, fed her right before, and did all we could to tire her out…yet, little baby girl had her own agenda {just like her mom}.  she was not having it.  she was fussy and not falling asleep!  she wouldn’t feed and momma was sweating up a storm we wouldn’t get her photos done.  oy, it was so stressful!  i had been looking forward to this photo shoot and it was not starting off well.

olive finally gave in to a feeding {her belly was full!} and snore away she did!  thank the Lord!  i was so nervous she would never settle down so tricia could capture the sweet photos she does.

here are a few of the lovely, sweet, beautiful photos {she is 6 days new}…enjoy!

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welcome little olive harper, she has changed our world and makes her momma cry happy tears!  her cute munchkin face is so precious.  we love her so much and can’t wait to have her meet everyone!

xoxo

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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how far along?  40 weeks!  whaaaa?!!  oh baby girl!  hurry up!  i can’t believe the due date is here but she is not!

weight gain: 36 lbs.  just what the doctor ordered!  she wanted me to gain between 30-40 lbs…i felt the latter number was ideal to gain because it’s much more fun!  hehe.

maternity clothes?   i officially don’t have to worry about it anymore!  i’m just waiting for her to arrive!  i am quite happy how long i was able to stretch out {literally} my wardrobe.

sleep:  sleep has been great.  i’ve fallen back into the late night owl habits.  it started out as very early bedtimes and slowly, very slowly progressed into later nights.  sleep has been good though!

physical state:  tired.  achy feet.  i’m very slow.  the typical symptoms of a lady who is in her last weeks of pregnancy.  although my energy is up!  so crazy but true…i can’t move quick, my feet are so numb but i have a lot of energy!  that energy is channeled into cleaning and organizing!  i’ve become beyond ocd,  i love making everything neat and clean.

miss anything?  seafood in large quantities.  wine.  not worrying about what i should or shouldn’t eat.   sautéed shrimp, breaded shrimp, garlic and butter shrimp.

baby movement:  she’s kung fu hustling inside the womb.  it’s amazing to see my belly shake back and forth.  she has pretty much been in the same position for weeks now.  i watch her kick and kick and kick with her tiny feet.  she’s most active when i’m sitting on the couch, on the computer, which is usually early in the evenings.   that is when she rumbles like a wwe fighter.

food cravings:  bagels and cream cheese.  fruit.  sugar cookies.

bump status:  ginormous.  it’s most, most uncomfortable in bed.  when I try to turn from side to side, oh my goodness!!!  it hurts!  she feels like a bag of bricks in my belly and when i try to turn from one side to the other, it feels like my belly is going to rip off my body.  yes, that sounds like an accurate description.

gender reveal:  it’s a girl!  hurry up baby girl!  it’s your birthday!

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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how far along?  38 weeks!  only a few more weeks!  eeekkkk!  she’s ready to go anytime soon!  i said to hc…this could be my last post…kinda sad!  we’ll see if i make it to the 40 week post!

weight gain: 35lbs.  it’s so cray to think i’ve gained that much weight!  well, at least it’s more gradual than the pounds i was packing on before!

maternity clothes?   the same mix, the usual and so near the end!  wow!  i’m so glad i was able to just wear all my regular gear…it felt more like me.  it was so hard to be sold on the maternity wear!  i didn’t love anything {the fashions are just sooo…maternity!} or i had a hard time justifying the money spent on it.

sleep:  pretty restful although i find that if i have the opportunity to sleep in, i don’t!  i pop awake and that is it.  i use to sleep, sleep the morning away but not so much the case now.  i usually can fall asleep just fine but sometimes when i wake up, it feels like she’s punching my stomach {she’s heavy and the pressure she puts on my stomach is yucky}!  ugh!  it makes me feel nausea and absolutely uncomfortable, sometimes painful.  it feels like someone punched me in my stomach and i need to kneel over to subside the pain.

physical state:  i was just on a staycation, so i was feeling great!  i am still tired {it’s a little frustrating} but take out the work factor and it’s so much better!  i’m a little nervous to go back because i’m afraid it will be very exhausting!!!  i’m slow and i seriously do waddle now :p  i struggle getting in and out of the car, in and out of the bed, sitting upright…oh you know, the usual pregger afflictions.

miss anything?  yes, a good glass of wine.  i know you can have almost anything ‘forbidden’ in moderation but i prefer not to.

baby movement:  she’s so strong!  and it’s so cute to feel her little feet and itty bitty hand movements.  i always feel the heels of her feet against my skin and her hands rubbing around by her face!  some of her movements can be quite uncomfortable {the rib kicks and the pressure at the bottom of my uterus}, otherwise it’s fun to feel her movements inside my belly.  i tease her and try to grab her feet when she’s so active.

food cravings:  soups {all kinds}, bagel and cream cheese, cronuts, and of course, lots and lots of fruit.

bump status:  big.  did i say big?  yes, big.  and now peeps are not asking me when i’m due but rephrased to “are you due soon?!”.  yup, she is big and ready to go.

gender reveal:  it’s a girl!  we love her and can’t wait to see her!  come meet us soon baby girl!

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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how far along?  36 weeks!  baby girl, it’s your birth month!!!  ah!  a few more weeks!  hopefully she doesn’t come too early or too late…if i’m lucky!

weight gain:  32lbs.  no weight gain since the last appointment!  phew!  i was a bit worried at the rate i was going at a few weeks ago.  i told the doc that most people gain it in the beginning and taper off near the end, but i was having the opposite effect! 

maternity clothes?  same ‘ol, same ‘ol.  i haven’t purchased anything new for the pregger wardrobe.  yay!  i just wear a lot of leggings, dresses, and all my normal tops.  hc just hopes that all my clothes i’ve been wearing will bounce back to their regular shape.  hey, they might be stretched just a tad around the belly but my regular clothes are doing just fine around this baby belly!  p.s. just so y’all know, they do bounce back after the wash!

sleep:  it’s been good!  a lot more solid.  despite the big belly.  i have a body pillow and i just wedge something under the belly for support and snooze away.  so, i’m feeling a lot better and more well rested than i was months ago!  i like to credit hc for being home, it’s much more comforting.

physical state:  honestly, pretty tired.  i really thought i was going to be superwomen through this all but it’s taking me down.  i get really tired…oy.  the belly is really weighing me down.  the flights of stairs are climbed up much more slowly.  the blocks i walk seem to double in time.  i try to fight it but i can’t!  so, i am getting better sleep just in time to be tired while i’m awake!  for tummy support, i love my belly band.  it’s not the one you wear to keep your pants up but it’s like a back/belly belt that supports your body.  it helps your back and supports the weight of your belly.  it really helps out!  it’s called the upsie belly…definitely worth the purchase!

miss anything?  yes, of course!  everything i can’t have!  especially beer since beerhoptacular is this weekend!  boo.  i’m missing my sushi…endless amounts of all kinds of fish & seafood.  i know i can eat small amounts of specific types but i want to be able to just have the green light and eat it all!

baby movement:  she’s a kick boxer.  she’s getting so big, the pressure on my organs is uncomfortable!  she tenses up inside and puts so much pressure on my cervix…yowza!  she kicks out my sides, my ribs, smooshes my stomach, and rolls over my bladder all day long!  i don’t think my digestive system knows how to operate with all this crazy pressure on it.

food cravings:  pears, fruit cocktails, and pineapple.  milano cookies.  yoplait cherry yogurt.

bump status:  so big.  so achy big!  a full blown bump that feels so heavy!  the skin stretches and it hurts!  i hope i’m selling this to all the never before pregger folks out there 😉  it gets cumbersome and exhausting but inside there’s a cute little surprise waiting for us!  a perfect blend of me and the hubs.  overall, i’ll miss the bump…being pregnant!  i can’t believe it’s coming to an end.  it might be uncomfortable at times but it’s so worth it.  it’s definitely been a fun, giddy experience.  people are so different to you, being pregnant, you are like a whole other species.  it’s been amazing to see what the body can do…it’s definitely a miracle, a blessing from God.

gender reveal:  it’s a girl!  we can’t wait to meet the little bundle of joy!

bebe’s room

oh baby!

we started on the baby’s room awhile ago and i am finally sharing!  of course, it’s not done yet but it definitely has it’s roots placed for a cute little girl’s abode!  thanks to hubby charming for doing almost all the work.  as usual, i have the vision and he has the muscle and tools.  we are loving it so far, it’s a small but mighty room!

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[getting the crib together in august]

the room was cleared out by early august {again, thanks to hc!!!!} and we had a clean slate to start with!  yay!  we purchased the crib from ikea {first things first…the babes needs a sleeping area asap!} and hubby charming went to work immediately to put it together!  hc did a lot of research on cribs…a crib is a crib is a crib, is what we learned.  anything sold in the u.s. is deemed safe by the federal government.  it all comes down to aesthetics!  you can pay $100 or $2,000 but it will all be safe for the bebe.  it’s just not the best idea to use a really old hand me down or any crib that’s old.  safety regulations change every few years and you want to make sure your stuff is up to date!

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[putting the finishing touches on the dresser]

we bought a grey dresser.  there was  a lot of debating, should we do all white?  will buying a grey dresser not go well with other grey decor we registered for?  well, we did it.  but we were inspired by other dressers we saw {actually it was hc’s idea with my liking!}.  we decided to go with white dresser drawers to tie into the white decor.  so hc bought wood, cut out matching dresser drawers, stained them white, and voila!  i absolutely loved the results!  we then went to anthropologie and purchased pink bubble glass knobs to complete the look!

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installing the shelves!

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how cute!  we purchased two of these from etsy.  they were perfect!

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we purchased ombre curtains from target {loooooveeeeee target!} and used two panels as the backdrop to the dresser.  i love how it looks!  it totally adds a pop of color for the room.  we debated using these really cool decals or painting but what swayed us to not do it was the possibility of it being temporary.  we might not be at our place for long, so why do all that work or spend the money if it wasn’t going to be more of a permanent situation??  so, i love how it ended up looking!

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i absolutely love the color combo.  it’s mainly grey/white with a sprinkling of light pink, coral, and gold!  so fun!  chevron rug from pbk…thank you lariss {muwah, you’re the best}!

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i love, love these two items {cloud pillow & johan the raccoon}!  so adorbs…a gift from my sisters!

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the paper tassel garland!  it really ties in all the colors within the room.  love!  decorative letters {a gift from my brother, dan} from rifle paper company.  blankets from lori {love you!} and my sisters {muwah!}, from the land of nod.  the gold polka dot bedding and changing covers are also from the land of nod {thanks kt and kar…so sweet of you both!}

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[i can’t wait to use the sleep sheep…thank you vs ladies!]

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[from stella…her cute grey giraffe themed gift! so generous!]

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[cloud pillow and ombre blanket from my sisters!]

it’s almost done!  i’m debating on this cute, cute cloud mobile i saw online {hmmm, i just don’t want the room to be too fussy}, so we’ll seeeeee!

we LOVE our beautiful grey linen rocking chair, from PBK, {thank you dick and jane!  such loving grandparents to baby heintz already!} it was delivered a few weeks ago!!  such a critical piece for the baby’s room…i was told by many that having a rocker/glider is a must have!  we are so grateful to dick and jane for this wonderful, generous gift!

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[shade from land of nod!  thank you ladies at vicki’s!]

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[stool from serena and lily – love that store!]

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[this adorbs sheep rocker doesn’t fit…right now, but the latest and cutest addition to the bebe’s room!  thank you tanya!!!]

we still have a few more things coming {i know!  i know you are thinking, “how can we fit anything else into this teeny, tiny room?!”.  well, just a wee bit more and i swear and we will be done!”}.  overall the room is dunzo!  how exciting!  we started with just the core pieces {we needed to get that done months ago for peace of mind} and slowly progressed the decorating process {the second priority!} to get the aesthetics down pat.

i want to say thank you, thank you, thank you for all the wonderful gifts from our friends and family!!!!  the ones given in person and the ones so kindly sent in the mail {let me tell you, i loved getting all the lovely packages in the mail!  who doesn’t?!}.  this room wouldn’t be so cute without all of your thoughtful, generous, and heartfelt gifts!!!  we feel so grateful for the gifts you have given us…blankets, toys, books, room decor, bedding, clothes, necessities, and all items in-between for baby heintz!

baby heintz is the most grateful one of all…she’s going to be so excited to see, use, and snuggle with all the gifts & love around her!

xoxo