happy anniversary

it was our two year anniversary!  my how time flies and how things change {aka having a baby!}.

we started our day with a delicious brunch at bite cafe.  very yummy.  i just wanted some good old fashioned breakfast goodies.  we had a very relaxing morning…chill & calm.

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[anniversary breakfast]

we headed back to our place {it’s just around the corner from bite} and rested for the afternoon.  we logged onto the computer, we watched some t.v., we chillaxed our time away.  before we knew it, it was time to get ready and i couldn’t get off the computer!  ya know, pinning can be addictive!  hc kept nudging me to get ready but i had a plan…i knew i could whip myself together in 15 minutes {noooo problem!}.  so there ya go, i jumped off the computer, freshened up the face, threw on the dress, and voila!  i was ready!  hc was doubtful of me, he really thought i wasn’t going to put in any effort for our anniversary night out!  ha!

we headed to boka, a michelin star restaurant, for a lovely evening of noshing and imbibing.  it was calm and serene inside.  we were greeted with a “happy anniversary” welcome by the hostess.  we were seated at the corner table {a favorite of mine in any resutarant}.  who doesn’t love the best seat in the house?!

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[at boka!]

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[menu]

we ordered drinks {my mocktail was concocted by the bartender through my request of having something fruity!} and perused the menu to determine what were we going to eat at this fabulous place!  once our orders were placed, we dived deep into our conversations and really enjoyed ourselves on our special night.

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[cheers!]

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[ready to order]

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[complimentary sweets]

it was a perfect day and a perfect end to our two year anniversary celebration.  we can’t wait to celebrate next year with our little one in our lives!

xoxo

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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[photo by hc]

how far along?  30 weeks {this pic was just a tad delayed, a bit over that mark}!  the baby weighs about 3lbs. and is practicing her breathing!

weight gain:  25lbs.  a one pound weight gain since my last appointment.  i was a bit scared of that scale!  this pregger lady’s anxiety!

maternity clothes?  a mix.  i love my work maternity pants.  i bought two cute maternity dresses.  otherwise, it is a blend of regular clothes and maternity pants.  i still rock the kiddie leggings of mine, an essential piece in my wardrobe!

sleep:  i figured out that if i sleep a little later in the night, i’m more apt to sleep through the night.  phew.  it’s helped a lot.  I sleep straight through and it feels so great!

physical state:  well, i am borderline anemic.  some of the effects are sleepless nights, clumsiness {oh yeah…i’ve been dropping stuff like it’s a contest i have to win}, & feeling tired.

miss anything?  sushi.  wine.  coffee.

baby movement:  oh, she’s a kicker!  she is getting stronger by the day.  she swirls, kicks across my stomach, smushes herself into a ball on one side of my belly {the pressure is a bit uncomfortable}.  she dances after i eat.  and now she hiccups.  at first i wasn’t sure what it was but then i realized since she ‘practices’ her breathing, it causes her to hiccup.

food cravings: hmmm, not really craving anything specific.  i’m eating regularly.  i snack a lot, i love mott’s fruit snacks, luna bars, & nutrigrain bars.

bump status:  big tummy!  feeling fussy and round.  although the belly feels way out there, peeps have been so kind in their compliments.  a pregnant lady makes everyone around her so super friendly!

gender reveal:  it’s a girl!!  it’s been really fun lately!  i’m really enjoying the cute little outfits, decorating her room {hopefully i will post a sneak peek soon!}, and getting to know her better and better becoming a little lady in my tummy.

cha quyen’s 40th

well that time had come, it was father quyen’s 40th year as an ordained priest!  we celebrated at the altar villa banquet hall out in addison.  it was quite a fete!  i could be exaggerating but i think it was close to 600 folks at the event.

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[mingling]

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[coaster favors]

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[me + hc]

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[honoring cha quyen]

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[with tricia!]

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[vietnamese entertainment]

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[with chu thong!]

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[with the man of the hour]

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[dad, mom, old friend, + dan]

i, as usual, cruised there straight from work.  i waited in the parking lot for my hubby charming to meet up with me, he was driving in from the city.  once we were together, we walked in and ran straight into my mom and dad.  yay!  we were immediately pinned with a rose flower {identifying us as family of cha quyen’s} and shuffled to our table.  although, we were amongst only a few who had tables reserved for us, i still have to fight off a bunch of vietnamese peeps from stealing the table!  they don’t care it says reserved, they will steal it from under this pregger lady!  so there i sat, waiting for the rest of my family to arrive.

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in the mean time, i was so excited to see my grandma [in from l.a.} and my parent’s old friends, di thu and chu thong {in from texas!}!  it was a total reunion that night!  we saw so many people we haven’t seen in awhile, it was so good to catch up!  it was a great evening except for the singing {oy…it was so loud, it was uncomfortable!}, it’s not a vietnamese event without some loud music and loud singing.  my brother dan said all vietnamese music/songs sound like a james bond theme song {funny statement of the night!}.

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[love!]

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[family]

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anyhoo, after much socializing, eating, and picture taking, it was time to go home!  we said our goodbyes and jetted out!  it truly was a good night!

xoxo

homemade cake

happy beurffday kim!

it was that milestone!  happy birthday to my dear sister, kim!  we celebrated at acadia.  terry surprised kim with a small, intimate dinner at the lovely restaurant.

i rushed over there after work {thank goodness there wasn’t any traffic!  and i found parking in a snap!}.  once i was settled in, they starting the whole process, and when i say process, it was.  it’s quite fascinating to watch.  all the servers that support during the whole dining experience.  how attentive and in tune they all are.  i just love places like that!  the service was impeccable, the food was beyond delish, and the company was fantastic!

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[personalized menu]

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[kim + lan]

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[my bro in law + moi]

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[present time!]

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[oxfords]

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[my non-alcoholic beverage concocted by the bartender]

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[my tasty halibut]

we wined {well everyone else} and dined, enjoyed our eclectic conversations, laughed a lot, ate a lot, and drank a lot.  after almost 4 hours of noshing and imbibing, we were dunzo.

but of course, it’s not a birthday without a cake!  it only completes the celebration!  so, there is was…thuy’s homemade cake.  it was such a sight.  you truly, truly had to be there.  from my pov, i saw it coming.  it was a glorious, blazing ball of fire heading our way.  our server walked from the kitchen, across the whole dining area, all the the way to our table in the corner with the fire hazard.  every diner’s head turned, cranked, and gawked at the well lit cake.  it was so hilarious.  kim didn’t know what was coming her way!  oh em gee, we could not stop laughing!  it was, seriously, the best part of the evening…it was splendid to see such a fancy restaurant serve this beauty of a cake {made with love from thuy}.  despite it’s wilting nature…it was damn good!  so yummy!

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[the blazing cake!]

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[happy birthday kim! // i love how the two dudes in the background are mesmerized!]

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[make a wish!]

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[birthday partiers]

thank you to terry and thuy for coordinating such a fabulous fete for our lovely sister kim.  happy birthday ma seour!

xoxo

perfect combo

it was such a perfect night!  so beautiful out!

i was able to meet up with andrea and leyla for a lovely al fresco dining experience.  we met up at folklore…so delish!!  hc and i ate there when we first moved into the area {it’s right down the street from us} and hadn’t been back since, so going there again made me realize how good it is!  we had forgotten about all the deliciousness there!

ah, it was such a fabulous evening to sit outside.  i haven’t seen leyla in awhile and it was so good to catch up!  it was great to hear her funny stories and to know that life is good for her!  our company was made up of two mommies and a soon to be mommy, so that made it good for some mommy talk!  no worries, we had plenty of convos around purses {chanel or celine?}. and shoes. and clothes. and shopping.  hehe.  our other loves!

we put in our entree order, oh i forget how much food they give you!  i ordered so much!  oops.  my eyes were bigger than my stomach.  oh well, it made for good leftovers!

we hung out for awhile to enjoy the perfect evening temperature.  that is when i crave a yummy glass of wine!  a warm, summer evening and a glass of wine is the perfect combo!  boo.

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[leyla, moi, and andrea]

cheers to this wonderful duo!  such great friends!

xoxo

ladies night

i haven’t seen these girls in awhile…well, it’s been a few months and it was def time to catch up!

we all met at D.O.C. wine bar.  i love seeing them!  they are such sweet ladies!  marina and i go way back to junior high {eekkk!}.  pam and i go waaaaayyyyyy back!  we have known each other since early elementary school {double eekkk}!  we didn’t go to the same one, our mutual connection is our bestie carol.  we befriended each other through her and have remained friends since!  ditto for rina!

we chit chatted the night away.  catching up on life stories.  i really enjoy spending time with them.  it just ebbs and flows.  ya know, when it’s just relaxing and fun; the time just flies by when you’re totally engaged with your friends.  well, hours passed by and it was actually getting late {late for me at least!} and i know pam and i had the longer drives back.

we hung out a bit outside the restaurant to finish up our fascinating conversations!  we finally had our hugs goodbye and went on our merry way!  love these ladies!  it was a very good night.

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[moi, marina, and pammy]

xoxo

happy 2 years!

my how time flies and how things change!

it’s been two years since we had the most wonderful day ever!!

[relive the magic]

or check out our wedding that was featured on 100 Layer Cake!!!

our wedding day was seriously magical.  i know that sounds cliche but it’s true!!!  we had the best time of our lives!  our wedding weekend was so perfect.  from our fabulous rehearsal dinner {the grill on the alley}, to our beautiful wedding day {st. clement + a new leaf}, to our sunday brunch {roy’s}, and a family dinner, sunday night, at my parent’s with our out of town guests…it was a euphoric weekend!

of course, a special shout out to our friends and families who were able to share in this joyous occasion with us.  y’all truly made the day fantastic…it’s what makes life go round!

happy anniversary to my loving hubby charming!  the most wonderful, amazing, thoughtful, caring, romantic, sweetest, funniest, handsome, incredibly loving man {not in any order and not enough words to describe him!} that i know.

he’s my cliche ‘soulmate’ idea, the cliche ‘you complete me’ statement, and the bestest partner in life.

i love you.

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[a semi private moment after becoming husband and wife]

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[ribbons + bells]

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[customized wedding decor]

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[how sweet it is]

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[our welcome table]

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[first dance]

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[handmade favors]

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[alone time in the flower shop]

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[all photos + 8mm film by kate headley]

xoxo

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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[photo by hc]

how far along?  28 weeks!  i can’t believe we only have 12 weeks to go {yikes}!  the baby weighs over two pounds & can open and close her eyes.

weight gain:  24lbs…whoa nelly!  i was shocked.  the nurse was shocked.  the baby was shocked i had gained so much weight!  i’m in awe.  this is the most weight i have gained in a four week period!!!!  my diet hasn’t changed much {i’m actually eating what i normally ate before i was pregnant and i’m still very active // i’m going to blame all the popsmart popcorn i’ve been eating} but this body is doing it’s thing!  c’est la vie!

maternity clothes?  still just rocking the maternity work pants.  although, we have a party coming up and i did buy myself my first maternity dress!  i’m quite excited!

sleep:  oooohhhhh, sleep.  i miss you already.  i tend to sleep for 4 hours, then wake up and never go back to sleep.  ugh.  so i’ll typically wake up around 2:30-3 am and i’ll have trouble falling back to sleep.  i’m lucky if i do get myself back to sleep.  i get sooo tired.  yucky.

physical state:  i’m feeling great overall.  in the last week and a half, i’m starting to feel the tummy weight gain on my whole body.  my lower back hurts a bit.  i’m actually starting to slow down!  walking is becoming very slow {at least in my book, i’m becoming slow!}.  i’m getting tired walking the normal distances i typically did before i was pregnant.  now i get a bit more exhausted and my legs start to hurt. and to think this is the beginning of the third trimester!!  i can still bend, but getting in and out of the car and bed has been more challenging physically!

miss anything?  sushi, bagel and lox, wine.

baby movement:  strong movements!  she likes to punch and kick now!  i feel it all over my belly.  she still likes her head to my right and kicks to my left, and she typically stays there all day.

food cravings:  fruit & salad.  i’ve honestly lost a bit of my appetite.  nothing appeals to me {this statement is the opposite of my weight gain!}.  i eat just because i should.  not as fun as it should be!

bump status:  feeling huge.  my profile is so big!  it’s been nice to hear everyone say how ‘small’ i look!  looks are deceiving!  this belly is getting BIG!

gender reveal:  it’s a girl!!  i’m really excited to have this baby girl!  it’s such a sweet idea!  i’m most excited to decorate her room!  i love decorating, so it’s been so fun thinking about all the cute ideas!

happiness is

happiness is when hubby charming is home.

when hubby charming comes home and i am happy as a clam.

happiness is a home cooked meal by hc.

happiness is snuggling with hc and a good movie is on t.v.

happiness is spending a lazy day with hc before this bebe comes.

happiness is when hc cooks me a a delcious breakfast in the morning.

happiness is going shopping with hc and getting his opinion on things.

happiness is waking up next to hc in the mornings.

happiness is attending mass together.

happiness is when hc and i can go on walks and hold hands.

i am most happy when i get to spend time with my hubby charming.

i love you to bits.

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[a delicious home cooked meal by hc]

xoxo

haircut day

a beautiful day for a sassy a haircut.  typically, we like scheduling three haircuts in a row…me, kim, & thuy but this time kim couldn’t make it!  so, it was just thuy and me.  it was a lovely sunny day for us!

i trekked in first due to thuy coming straight from work.  hubby charming and moi got there early and misako was able to take me right away.  i just love her!  she has been cutting my hair for 12 years!  she actually didn’t know i was pregnant!  last time i saw her, i was at the 3 month mark and i couldn’t tell her because i hadn’t told the family yet!

anyhoo, we chit chatted, caught up, talked about baby stuff, and just really enjoyed each other’s company.  she trimmed my hair up all fresh and clean…holy long hair!  once i was done, i settled onto the couch and waited for thuy to get there for her haircut.

after both our sessions, we traipsed our way to an eatery we all haven’t been to, farmhouse.  it was sooo good!  delicious.  we were very satisfied and happy!

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[thuy’s new do]

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[farmhouse]

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[farmhouse’s cool interior]

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[haircuttery]

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[menu perusing]

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[my tasty meal // forest mushroom and poblano pepper old world grains burger]

after lunch, thuy had commitments to go to and so did we!  it was fab haircut day and delicious feasting.  a great way to spend our afternoon together!

xoxo