bump status

timeline of the bump.

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[photo by hc]

how far along?  34 weeks!  getting close!

weight gain:  32lbs.  hello!  ugh, the scale is my enemy…that is why i don’t personally own one!!!  i’m bloated…water retention sucks.

maternity clothes?  still a mixture of clothing.  i haven’t purchased anything new, just recycling the old to make it new again 🙂

sleep:  it’s been better!  and so much better now that hc is home on a regular basis!  so happy over that!  it’s so much more comforting.  i am sleeping more through the night…i’m trying to do that as much as possible before the bebe comes!

physical state:  feeling great overall!  just your typical third trimester issues.  feeling heavy {super heavy}, getting a bit tired {ugh, the heavy breathing, the shortness of breath, i can’t physically do what i am use to}, and i’m amazed at how big that belly can get!  the weight really bogs me down.  hc and i walked around the city the other day {to support our friends running in the marathon} and i almost had a melt down!  i was so unbelievably exhausted, i cried.  i’m so use to being the energizer bunny…the batteries do run out!

miss anything?  yes…everything i ‘shouldn’t’ eat.  i went to a sushi restaurant the other night and i wanted to devour all that raw fish!

baby movement:  she’s getting stronger everyday!  it’s such an odd and amazing feeling.  it’s so hard to describe it to anyone who has never been pregnant!  when she is up and kickin’, she is dancing in the belly!  it’s just boom, boom, boom, against my tummy!  she, the other week, did a first:  she kicked under my ribcage and pulled it out…ouch!!  that was a bit jarring.  she is still hiccuping at least two-three times a day!

food cravings:  yogurt, milano cookies, mott’s fruit snacks, sprite zero.

bump status:  big o belly.  it’s so big and there’s a baby chillin’ in there!  it’s only going to get bigger!  people like to point out that i’m all belly but i think they just can’t see past it to truly see those big o hips o mine! 😉

gender reveal:  it’s a girl.  a sweet baby girl.

maternity sesh

i was beyond excited for our maternity photo session!!  oh the anticipation!  i was hoping the weather was going to be fantastic.  i mean, it’s october…it could be chilly, it could be rainy and honestly, the weather app was looking like the first two were going to be true!  well, lo and behold, it was a gorgeous, warm day!

we headed to lincoln park’s lily pond for these fabulous photos.  it was so perfect, so beautiful out to a beautiful setting.  our photographer, tricia, was so relaxing and great to work with!  she made us feel so comfortable and, of course, knew how to capture the belly bump perfectly!  our minds had collaborated to create these romantic photos.  her creativity and my vision combined, equated to some absolutely lovely shots of the bump.

after the session at lincoln park, we headed back to our abode for some more intimate photos.  the belly bump in the raw!  i wish i could post more of the photos but that would be too risqué {they are a little more private and personal}!  i wanted it to be more of a clean, dreamy, romantic, classy boudoir style session.  it turned out perfect!!  please enjoy the photos…as much as we have enjoyed this whole process!

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[bump love]

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[me + my love]

maternity photos

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[my absolute FAVORITE…such a pretty backdrop]

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[another bump FAVORITE from the boudoir session!]

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[i fell in love with this chair!  borrowed from tricia’s studio.  thank you to hc for transporting it!]

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a huge thank you to tricia for capturing such a special moment in our lives!  we are so pleased with how the photos turned out; you captured the bump so beautifully!  we can’t wait for our baby girl to arrive and to capture those cute first moments as well!!

{all photos by patricia anderson}

xoxo

m & m’s wedding

the day had finally come for matt and michelle to tie the knot!

we were so excited to see them and see them get married!  we grabbed a cab and we were on our way to the church, they were married at old st. pats!  the ceremony was at 5 pm…we were just a wee bit late {by 3 minutes!}, she was already walking down the aisle as we stood by the door waiting to go inside.  they finally let us in and we snuck up to the front!  the ceremony was beautiful and sweet.

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[husband and wife!]

i love weddings!  it’s just so exciting seeing another couple in love, saying their vows, and experiencing the joys of getting married!  or maybe it’s because i loved, loved, loved getting married and hope that every couple that does, goes through the same beautiful high of emotions like we did.  i always say, if i could bottle the euphoria you feel on that special day, the wonders it could do for the world to experience such happiness and love!

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[the beautiful bride]

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[the bride is wearing lazaro]

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[the handsome groom]

after the lovely ceremony, we ran into some friends, from rich’s old job, outside the church.    we snagged a ride with them to the reception, although matt and michelle had transportation for everyone.

their reception was held at the allerton, at the tip top tap ballroom.  we gathered together for cocktail hour…i was hungry!  i sampled every hor d’oeuvres they offered.  they were all so yummy!  after the boys had a few drinks, the chimes were rung and it was time to enter into the dining area.

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[the yummy food]

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[table decor]

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[mr + mrs clark]

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[our name is correct 😉 ]

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[awwww, so cute!]

it was cozy inside.  pretty table decor, cool lighting, and lovely flowers!  the speeches were sweet and hilarious.  it was so great to see matt and michelle so happy!  the food was delicious and the cake was scrumptious!!!  i loved the pear and red wine cake, it was heaven!  so stinkin’ good!  after dinner, the dancing ensued.  we took turns in the photo booth, boogied a bit, and had a lot of fun!

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[photo booth fun – rich in a golf hat and myself with a black veil fascinator]

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it was after 10pm and this pregger lady was dunzo.  I had worked so early and was on the go, go, go…i had to say adios.  we said our congrats and goodbye to matt and michelle and headed home sweet home!

we love you, matt and michelle!!  congrats on the beautiful wedding, the wonderful journey you are now on, and we felt blessed to have been able to celebrate with you guys!

xoxo

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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[photo by hc]

how far along?  32 weeks!  the baby weighs about 4lbs. and it’s starting to get a little tight in the womb!  her movements will start getting a little strained!  can you believe, technically i could deliver 5 weeks from now?!  but i know…every mom has said first timers are usually delivering at 40 weeks or more.

weight gain:  27lbs.  a two pound weight gain since my last appointment.  it’s a gradual process!

maternity clothes?  still a mix of maternity and regular.  i haven’t purchased anything new.  whatever i can throw together to make it work.  i test out all of my regular clothes to see if i can pull off a ‘maternity’ look.  sometimes i’m successful, sometimes it’s freakin’ redic i thought it could possibly fit over my belly.  hehe.

sleep:  it’s alright.  not too bad, not absolutely great.  it’s much better than it’s been before.  i am actually having more restful nights of late and it feels fantastic!  i do get the random days of sleepless nights but it’s been very few of late, which i am so grateful for!

physical state:  i am still clumsy but i am taking my iron pills which helps overall.  though, being clumsy in my state is a big belly pain, literally!  if i drop something, which is quite often, it is very difficult to bend down to pick it up!  i’m finally starting to feel the pinch.  i huff and puff a lot more, it’s hard to just get up from anything {ex. couch & bed}.  everyone says my belly is small but, boy, does it feel huge!  also, baby brain has kicked into full gear.  i’m aloof, i’m forgetful, and i’m lost in translation.  i’m amazed it’s true…i seriously have baby brain and it’s something i can’t fight off!

miss anything?  the usual.  i sporadically make the effort to get a fancy decaf coffee.  tis the season to get a fancy coffee at starbucks.  i love getting one when the weather turns chilly!

baby movement:  oh my goodness.  her movements are getting more strong and rowdy!  it’s shocking, sometimes, how hard she kicks.  and so uncomfortable when she does kick hard and at the same time rolls her head back and forth over my bladder.  yowza.  but it is absolutely amazing.  i am fascinated by it.  poor hc is intrigued but he told me it’s not the same, which is true.  this baby inside my belly is a true miracle and i am amazed by it.

food cravings:  still a lot of fruit.  fruit filled jello.  fruit flavored jello.  fresh fruit.  canned fruit.  fruit yogurt.  sprite zero.  yum.

bump status:  itchy belly.  the feeling has become tight already.  just when you feel like your skin can’t stretch anymore, it does.  oh, and she loves sliding all the way to my right side of the belly into a little ball where it feels likes she is going to explode right out my side.  oh little baby.

gender reveal:  it’s a girl.  totally in love.

heintz baby shower

i felt very blessed to be attending my baby shower hosted by jane and missy!  it was so kind of them to want to throw me a shower!  it was mainly the biondo side of the family and as usual, quite entertaining!

me, grace, and rich started out our day by getting ready for church.  we had to drop off some goodies {sea salt caramel pretzel brownies} i baked for fall fest {a fun event where the programs at church advertise what community work they do & sign up volunteers}.

after mass, grace really wanted to collect some goodies on all the tables, so we patiently waited around while she practically trick ‘o treated all the tables with some homemade goods!  we finally had to reel her in and head on our merry way to grandma’s house!

we arrived just right after 12pm and the party was in full swing…i think we were almost the last to get there [oops!]!  we mingled and gleefully talked a lot of baby talk {hello, it is a baby shower!}.  the food was served and we sat ourselves down to munch on some lunch.

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[hostess with the mostess, jane and missy]

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[pretty pink roses]

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[me and lori]

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[decor]

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[rich, colin, and nancy]

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[kathy, rich, moi, and ruth]

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[sitting down to eat]

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[punch]

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[lunch goodies]

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[sweet treats]

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[dessert time!]

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[yummy cookies]

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[kim’s pov]

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[cake and ice cream]

soon, we proceeded onto the opening of presents!  it was so much fun to open up all the cute gifts for little baby heintz!  so many adorable items for her!  we felt so blessed to be showered with so many clothes, gear, and toys for the little girl!

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[ready to open gifts for baby]

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[how adorbs!]

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[super excited over carrie, nancy, and pat’s gift!!!]

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[missy’s cute gifts]

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[absolutely LOVED grace’s gift!]

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[sisters]

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[kathy and carrie]

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[morgan and darci]

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[aunt vicki]

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[favors]

thank you to everyone for attending and being so kind and generous!  a huge thank you to missy and jane for throwing such a wonderful shower for our little baby girl!

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each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.  2 corinthians 9:7

xoxo

happy anniversary

it was our two year anniversary!  my how time flies and how things change {aka having a baby!}.

we started our day with a delicious brunch at bite cafe.  very yummy.  i just wanted some good old fashioned breakfast goodies.  we had a very relaxing morning…chill & calm.

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[anniversary breakfast]

we headed back to our place {it’s just around the corner from bite} and rested for the afternoon.  we logged onto the computer, we watched some t.v., we chillaxed our time away.  before we knew it, it was time to get ready and i couldn’t get off the computer!  ya know, pinning can be addictive!  hc kept nudging me to get ready but i had a plan…i knew i could whip myself together in 15 minutes {noooo problem!}.  so there ya go, i jumped off the computer, freshened up the face, threw on the dress, and voila!  i was ready!  hc was doubtful of me, he really thought i wasn’t going to put in any effort for our anniversary night out!  ha!

we headed to boka, a michelin star restaurant, for a lovely evening of noshing and imbibing.  it was calm and serene inside.  we were greeted with a “happy anniversary” welcome by the hostess.  we were seated at the corner table {a favorite of mine in any resutarant}.  who doesn’t love the best seat in the house?!

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[at boka!]

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[menu]

we ordered drinks {my mocktail was concocted by the bartender through my request of having something fruity!} and perused the menu to determine what were we going to eat at this fabulous place!  once our orders were placed, we dived deep into our conversations and really enjoyed ourselves on our special night.

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[cheers!]

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[ready to order]

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[complimentary sweets]

it was a perfect day and a perfect end to our two year anniversary celebration.  we can’t wait to celebrate next year with our little one in our lives!

xoxo

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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[photo by hc]

how far along?  30 weeks {this pic was just a tad delayed, a bit over that mark}!  the baby weighs about 3lbs. and is practicing her breathing!

weight gain:  25lbs.  a one pound weight gain since my last appointment.  i was a bit scared of that scale!  this pregger lady’s anxiety!

maternity clothes?  a mix.  i love my work maternity pants.  i bought two cute maternity dresses.  otherwise, it is a blend of regular clothes and maternity pants.  i still rock the kiddie leggings of mine, an essential piece in my wardrobe!

sleep:  i figured out that if i sleep a little later in the night, i’m more apt to sleep through the night.  phew.  it’s helped a lot.  I sleep straight through and it feels so great!

physical state:  well, i am borderline anemic.  some of the effects are sleepless nights, clumsiness {oh yeah…i’ve been dropping stuff like it’s a contest i have to win}, & feeling tired.

miss anything?  sushi.  wine.  coffee.

baby movement:  oh, she’s a kicker!  she is getting stronger by the day.  she swirls, kicks across my stomach, smushes herself into a ball on one side of my belly {the pressure is a bit uncomfortable}.  she dances after i eat.  and now she hiccups.  at first i wasn’t sure what it was but then i realized since she ‘practices’ her breathing, it causes her to hiccup.

food cravings: hmmm, not really craving anything specific.  i’m eating regularly.  i snack a lot, i love mott’s fruit snacks, luna bars, & nutrigrain bars.

bump status:  big tummy!  feeling fussy and round.  although the belly feels way out there, peeps have been so kind in their compliments.  a pregnant lady makes everyone around her so super friendly!

gender reveal:  it’s a girl!!  it’s been really fun lately!  i’m really enjoying the cute little outfits, decorating her room {hopefully i will post a sneak peek soon!}, and getting to know her better and better becoming a little lady in my tummy.

happy 2 years!

my how time flies and how things change!

it’s been two years since we had the most wonderful day ever!!

[relive the magic]

or check out our wedding that was featured on 100 Layer Cake!!!

our wedding day was seriously magical.  i know that sounds cliche but it’s true!!!  we had the best time of our lives!  our wedding weekend was so perfect.  from our fabulous rehearsal dinner {the grill on the alley}, to our beautiful wedding day {st. clement + a new leaf}, to our sunday brunch {roy’s}, and a family dinner, sunday night, at my parent’s with our out of town guests…it was a euphoric weekend!

of course, a special shout out to our friends and families who were able to share in this joyous occasion with us.  y’all truly made the day fantastic…it’s what makes life go round!

happy anniversary to my loving hubby charming!  the most wonderful, amazing, thoughtful, caring, romantic, sweetest, funniest, handsome, incredibly loving man {not in any order and not enough words to describe him!} that i know.

he’s my cliche ‘soulmate’ idea, the cliche ‘you complete me’ statement, and the bestest partner in life.

i love you.

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[a semi private moment after becoming husband and wife]

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[ribbons + bells]

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[customized wedding decor]

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[how sweet it is]

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[our welcome table]

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[first dance]

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[handmade favors]

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[alone time in the flower shop]

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[all photos + 8mm film by kate headley]

xoxo

bump status

timeline of the bump.

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[photo by hc]

how far along?  28 weeks!  i can’t believe we only have 12 weeks to go {yikes}!  the baby weighs over two pounds & can open and close her eyes.

weight gain:  24lbs…whoa nelly!  i was shocked.  the nurse was shocked.  the baby was shocked i had gained so much weight!  i’m in awe.  this is the most weight i have gained in a four week period!!!!  my diet hasn’t changed much {i’m actually eating what i normally ate before i was pregnant and i’m still very active // i’m going to blame all the popsmart popcorn i’ve been eating} but this body is doing it’s thing!  c’est la vie!

maternity clothes?  still just rocking the maternity work pants.  although, we have a party coming up and i did buy myself my first maternity dress!  i’m quite excited!

sleep:  oooohhhhh, sleep.  i miss you already.  i tend to sleep for 4 hours, then wake up and never go back to sleep.  ugh.  so i’ll typically wake up around 2:30-3 am and i’ll have trouble falling back to sleep.  i’m lucky if i do get myself back to sleep.  i get sooo tired.  yucky.

physical state:  i’m feeling great overall.  in the last week and a half, i’m starting to feel the tummy weight gain on my whole body.  my lower back hurts a bit.  i’m actually starting to slow down!  walking is becoming very slow {at least in my book, i’m becoming slow!}.  i’m getting tired walking the normal distances i typically did before i was pregnant.  now i get a bit more exhausted and my legs start to hurt. and to think this is the beginning of the third trimester!!  i can still bend, but getting in and out of the car and bed has been more challenging physically!

miss anything?  sushi, bagel and lox, wine.

baby movement:  strong movements!  she likes to punch and kick now!  i feel it all over my belly.  she still likes her head to my right and kicks to my left, and she typically stays there all day.

food cravings:  fruit & salad.  i’ve honestly lost a bit of my appetite.  nothing appeals to me {this statement is the opposite of my weight gain!}.  i eat just because i should.  not as fun as it should be!

bump status:  feeling huge.  my profile is so big!  it’s been nice to hear everyone say how ‘small’ i look!  looks are deceiving!  this belly is getting BIG!

gender reveal:  it’s a girl!!  i’m really excited to have this baby girl!  it’s such a sweet idea!  i’m most excited to decorate her room!  i love decorating, so it’s been so fun thinking about all the cute ideas!

happiness is

happiness is when hubby charming is home.

when hubby charming comes home and i am happy as a clam.

happiness is a home cooked meal by hc.

happiness is snuggling with hc and a good movie is on t.v.

happiness is spending a lazy day with hc before this bebe comes.

happiness is when hc cooks me a a delcious breakfast in the morning.

happiness is going shopping with hc and getting his opinion on things.

happiness is waking up next to hc in the mornings.

happiness is attending mass together.

happiness is when hc and i can go on walks and hold hands.

i am most happy when i get to spend time with my hubby charming.

i love you to bits.

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[a delicious home cooked meal by hc]

xoxo