decorating

oy…the joys and whoas of decorating a new home!

it’s tough. we are working on the living room right now. we need to buy a new rug and curtains for it. ugh. i am overwhelmed with the options…so many choices and i need to make a decision soon! we need curtains asap! there is nothing on our window right now and we need to have the privacy and i want to have the room aesthetically pleasing.

we keep debating back and forth on patterns and colors for our curtains. it’s such a big expense and i can’t make up my mind!

here are some ideas for the curtains:

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this swatch is from regal drapes. i love the cross pattern and colors. i am torn though, i’m not sure what color i really want the drapes to be! i want color but i’m wavering on committing to one!

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this one is from the shade store. as you can see…i am leaning towards yellow. i do love the yellow and gray, i think it will be a nice accent color and give the room a nice pop of brightness.

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i like this iron gate style from drape style. i’d maybe do this in a dark grey but i think i am leaning towards color. ugh. i dunnoooooo! honestly, everything i peek at looks really nice, i wish i could get several options and just change them out when i feel like it! yeaaaaahhhh, right.

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the iron gate looks very nice, i think the print will impactful in the space and neutral enough to play around with when it comes to any accents.

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hc and i really like this print above. it’s from an etsy seller, she offers quite a range of fabrics and color.

as for rugs, i played around with idea of doing something bright. i am now leaning towards something more graphic and bold. a nice statement rug that can flex with any of the color and accent changes in the room.

here are some ideas around rugs:

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i love this rug from ikea. i like the bright colors. the only issue i have with this is that is doesn’t come in a larger size. the size it is will do but we really want a larger rug to fit better into the size of the room.

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i love this rug from rugs direct. i like how bold it is but still neutral where we can change our room colors around it. i like the graphic design and the bold neutral colors that still make a statement. the only thing that makes me nervous is that it is a cream color! i must be crazy to want a cream colored rug with kids!!

i wish i had everything available so i could play around and then truly make a decision {wouldn’t that be great?!}! the whole decorating thing is fun…it’s our house and we get to make it as beautiful, lovely, comfy, and cool as we please! i love it.

well, once we finalize everything, i’ll let y’all know what decor we decided on! we will still have a lot to do with the room but getting the main pieces implemented is our main focus! ooohhhh, I can’t wait to share!

xoxo

flashback friday

today takes us back to august 2011.

here we are at my bachelorette fete. it was hosted by olivia, carol {who couldn’t make it}, and andrea, at andrea’s place in wicker park. it started out in the early evening at her place, everyone gathered there for apps {tasty bites prepared by olivia} and socializing. it was a breakfast at tiffany’s theme {i wasn’t aware of the theme until i got there! how cool}, so all the gals wore black dresses, pearls, and sunglasses…so fun! they even got me a tiffany’s blue box with a white ribbon cake {from alliance bakery}!! so sweet, literally!

carol had sent, from seattle, some cute photo booth props and we were having a grand ‘ol time with it! as you can see, thuy and i are loving it. we played around a bit with the fun props, snapping photos with our phones. but then andrea and olivia really surprised me with an impromptu photo session! they had hired a photographer to come in to do a mini ‘fashion’ shoot with everyone! that was so awesome {maybe a future flashback friday post?!}. the photos turned out fantastic and what an awesome way to capture a fun moment in my life!

anyhoo, i had the most amazing time at my bachelorette party! it was an evening full of wonderful friends, family, delicious food {yum, sea dog – my other favorite sushi place}, entertainment, hitting the bars, drag queens, and fun little games {it’s not complete without a panty guessing game!}! what a bachelorette party should be, celebrating the last few days of me being a single lady {yes, he put a ring on it}!

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[i love this pic of me and thuy!]

i hope your weekend is filled with lots of hugs and kisses and love, lovies. happy friday y’all!

xoxo

august snapshots

really?! august has come and gone?! what a great month it was. there was a lot of time hanging out with family and friends. definitely how life should be spent. i love life and i really do see the glass half full. life is too short to not revel in all the good things in your life. i try my hardest to live by those rules. i’m not always successful but i do believe i always have a sunny disposition that will always take me to the brighter side.

of course, a lot of these snapshots are of our beautiful, baby girl olive. she brightens our day, everyday. 🙂 this past month, we were able to celebrate my nephews birthday, my sister kim’s birthday, do a lot of outdoor activities, and enjoy the last bits of warm weather!

oh, summer…you are coming to an end and we are not ready. we love having you around and all that warm weather you bring. if you stay, i promise i will bake you a cake 😉 or maybe hc will bake you the cake. no matter, you will get cake, as long as you stay. pretty please. with sprinkles on top. and a side of ice cream. yum.

so, here is our past month in rewind. i hope you enjoy the pics and the many pics of our darling baby girl! here’s to another fabulous month to come!

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[snuggling with daddy]

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[not happy and very tired, teething babes]

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[tired little peanut]

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[olive, hc, and b]

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[best fast food burger ever]

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[typical look of disgust from our baby girl]

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[baby yoga while sleeping]

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[bath time // that’s reagan’s hand]

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[scooting around with cousin reagan]

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[bennett’s awesome birthday cake]

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[personalized cheese plate courtesy of my sis in law, missy]

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[sq. 1: “why is gracie still sleeping? sq. 2: “hmmm, i’m looking at you!” sq. 3: “heeheehee” sq. 4: “yaaayyyyy! she’s awake!”]

xoxo

din din at ma soeur

thuy and i decided to head over to our sister kim’s place to have dinner and finally give her the birthday gift we forgot to give her on her birthday 🙂 it was a bit of a cooler evening {signs of fall coming!}, we were on our way to their place and picked up some indian {yum} food along the way. i love naan. obsessed with naan. it’s so good!

once we got there, bennett and reagan were so excited olive was there. right away, bennett started to play with little olive. reagan was soon done with his bath and joined in on the fun. they are so cute together. i love watching them play together. they are so sweet and loving with her. it melts my heart and brings me such joy knowing that they get to grow up together.

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we got down to eating. i was so hungry! there were so many delicious dishes to choose from, i nibbled a little bit of everything. then all my nibbling turned into a very full, overstuffed belly!

after dinner, i asked kim for a sippy cup with a straw. olive has never tried sipping from a straw. yes…it wasn’t at the top of my list of things for her to do. we started to give her water from a bottle several months ago, then we graduated into a sippy cup, but we have never tried a straw. success! she sipped with enough force to draw the water up from the cup!

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[first time sipping from a straw!]

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[she loves her sunnies {i wear my sunglasses at night} and her louis vuitton]

so, we got down to kim opening her gifts. of course the boys helped her! after kim finished up with her presents, she went into her room and came running out with a pair of shoes for olive. they were lovely, little straw sandals with pink flowers on top. we put them on olive and she was not fond of them!! all summer long, i have had her barefoot. she doesn’t walk and it was too warm for her to have anything on her feet. i found the idea of her having shoes to be wasteful. with that, she didn’t like them on her feet and she kept pulling on them to try to get them off her feet!

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[birthday gifts]

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[hmmmm, paper…i love paper]

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[look ma! it’s louis!]

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[like niece, like auntie]

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[olive, do you like auntie kim’s bootie??]

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[oh baby olive was gifted with shoes, from her auntie, as well!]

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[olive standing up on her own!]

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well, it was a very relaxing, very low key night with the fam. we had a great time just hanging out and reveling in baby olive’s antics, as usual!

thanks to r+b, kim and terry for hosting us!

xoxo

brunch with jod

there was so much going on {ya know, life!} between me and jodi, we were lucky to finally set up a brunch date together!

my morning started off swell but the rain really, really put a damper on my start out the house! ugh, yucky rain…when it does rain, oh my, it slows everyone down on the road {more on that later}.

first off, i thought it was going to be warm out. nope. i walked outside and turned around to change my outfit, again. it was chilly! so that slowed me down. i was constantly forgetting something of olive. oy vey. whether it was her toy, her snacks, or her {just kidding!}, that slowed me down. well then, i was already having a late start out the house and i needed to do a few errands before i met up with jodi. no bueno already.

i knew i was going to be late, so i text jod to give her the heads up. of course, traffic was sloooooooww. everyone drives like there is ice on the streets! hello. it wasn’t even raining anymore but the trouble it causes! so, as i made my way into the city, inner city traffic was just as bad. i needed to hit river north to stop by my salon to pick something up. then i needed to make my way into lincoln park to pick something up from boka. that. took. forever. i finally made it to the restaurant, wishbone, just a few minutes after jodi and jett showed up!

then the cuteness began! they were soooo adorbs together. jett kept saying ‘baby! baby!’. then he wanted to hold her hand. *sigh* you just wanted to melt looking and listening to these two babes. cutie jett wanted to give olive all his food…which of course, olive would take in a heart beat but she wasn’t allowed to eat it. i’m going to wait a bit before i feed olive tortilla chips 😉

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[they were just toooooo adorbs together!!]

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[scrunchy face]

jodi and i immediately started to catch up on all the latest news. i was super duper excited for her and matt, they had just bought a house! our lives have been almost mirror images of one another, just months apart in succession. she got engaged, then i got engaged, she got married, then i got married, she got pregnant, then i got pregnant, i bought a house, then she bought a house. we love sharing our experiences together and celebrating the good bits and working out the tough ones.

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[our two cuties!]

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we made sure we perused the menu and decided on our orders before we dove deep into our conversations. i chose the yankee scramble…it was soooo delish! and the bacon was amaze {amaze}. there was so much food, i couldn’t finish it all or rather, you shouldn’t eat this much food?!

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[sooooo good]

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after eating and talking for an hour or so, we packed up our things and headed out. jodi and jett had a commitment to attend to in the ‘burbs and i had olive’s doctor’s appointment down the street.

it was too cute, jett really wanted to push the stroller so push he did! we were in stitches on how stinkin’ cute it was to see him push olive down the street. he couldn’t see, he had no idea where he was going with that stroller, but he sure did a great job getting that stroller down the street!

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oh, it was such a cute afternoon {despite the crazy road rage to get there!} and i was super happy to have met up with jodi and cutie jett. i love these two, the little bugger is so darling!

it turned out to be a beautiful afternoon and olive and i enjoyed our sunny walk to her doctor’s appointment. i love walks, i love sunny days, and i love being with my little olive. oh happy day.

xoxo

flashback friday

today takes us back to september 2012.

we scheduled a trip out to new york city for our one year anniversary. i was soooo stoked. i love, love, love nyc. it’s my second home. i would live there in a heartbeat if i could 1. afford it 2. if my family lived out there too.

our trip to nyc was amazing. it was the most perfect weather and temperature. we totally explored the city by foot. only a few times did we take a cab. we literally walked everywhere. it gave us a chance to experience the city at our pace; we were able to see things we wouldn’t have seen if we were always on the subway or in a cab. we went into shops that were cute, we stopped at cafes and restaurants that looked yummy, we soaked in the vibe and grittiness of good ‘ol new york.

oh, i could go on and on about how amazing our first anniversary trip was there. i had a spectacular time. we were there on the anniversary of 9.11 and it was also fashion week! so, there was a lot going on all around us. the feeling of being there on 9.11, being right there where the twin towers were, was absolutely surreal and very sobering. the energy there was palpable and the emotions were so high. everyone was so quiet and the only noise you heard in the background were bagpipes. it was almost unbelievable that so many people were there but there wasn’t really any sounds but silence.

well, here we are at eataly in new york city. it had been opened for two years, by the time we got the chance to visit it. i was super excited to experience it…my sisters had suggested it, knowing that we were traveling to nyc. it was fantastic. there was so much to look at, so much to experience! all the food looked so mouth watering and we literally walked around and around to look at all the restaurants…we couldn’t decide on where to eat! we finally chose the restaurant manzo.

it was beyond delicious. the food was served as is. no salt. no pepper. no nothing on your table. just you and your food. it was a tiny little place and there wasn’t a lot of seating, so it was cozy and quaint for being such a ginormous place!

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i could go on and on about our trip to new york. it was so eventful and fun but i will save bits and pieces for another time, another blog 😉

well, there you go lovies. another flashback friday come and gone. i hope y’all have an amazing friday full of fun! cheers!

xoxo

happiness is

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happiness is having hc as my amazing partner.

happiness is coming home to olive.

happiness is eating a delicious meal.

happiness is getting hugs and kisses from olive.

happiness is a sunny day.

happiness is hearing olive giggle.

happiness is having my health.

happiness is being in hc’s arms

happiness is a solid night’s sleep.

happiness is watching olive grow.

happiness is being with family.

happiness is celebrating holidays together.

happiness is having a new home.

happiness is sitting next to my dad, in his arms.

happiness is having wonderful friends.

happiness is having siblings.

happiness is getting a hug and kiss goodnight from hc every night.

i am happy because i have an amazing husband, a beautiful daughter, and a loving family.

what is on your happiness list today?

for the Lord knows the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish. psalm 1:6

xoxo

flashback friday

today takes us back to august 2011.

it was one month before our wedding and i was at my last dress fitting. i had gone there with the lovely olivia…she was totally my partner in crime throughout this whole planning process. a true friend. to this day, i am so thankful for her support.

i had the last adjustments to my beautiful dress made that day. my tailor, at the bridal shop, was so amazing. it was like she had a magic wand. everything she did looked fantastic and she was so great with her advice. i couldn’t wait to wear my gorgeous dress for our big day!

as we were leaving the shop, we found this outrageous hair piece by the accessories shelf. it was so ridic. i had to put it on. c’mon…who would wear this?! really. it was so obnoxious. it’s an enormous bow that ate my head. i’d like to see the bride who could pull this off. don’t get me wrong, i’m into eclectic tastes and unique styles but this was off the charts on silliness.

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well, i hope you find some sort of silliness in your day today. find something that will make you giggle or even laugh really hard. because sometimes you just need a moment to be a kid again and just be goofy.

happy friday y’all.

xoxo

wedding luncheon

the time had come. it was andrea and jamie’s wedding weekend!

i was so excited. andrea had a wedding luncheon the day prior to their wedding at cantina laredo. i was looking forward to meeting some of andrea’s close friends, in for the wedding, that don’t live in town.

we felt blessed we were invited to their luncheon and their rehearsal dinner! unfortunately, our weekend was beyond busy and we opted out on the dinner. boo. no, seriously boooooo. if anyone knows me, i don’t like missing out on anything. it is rare for me to decline any events {unless it is beyond my control} and we had to pick and choose our battles this weekend, on what was best for olive. we had events afternoon and evening three days in a row {yowza}, we needed to figure out care for olive and how much time away from her we really wanted to be. so, after much babbling, the rehearsal dinner was on the chopping block. we needed that break but i am still kicking myself for us not going. like i said…i greatly dislike missing any of my friends/family events. life is way too short!

anyhoozle, i packed up olive and to the city we went {hc was golfing with the groom that afternoon while i was lunching with the bride}. i was hoping she would fall asleep…it was just a tad past her nap time when we left. unfortunately, i couldn’t put her down because we had to go, so i crossed my fingers that she would nap in the car. yup, there she went, she closed her eyes and fell asleep but unfortunately (?) the car ride was so short! we cruised to the city and she barely slept. i was hoping she would stay asleep but as soon as i stopped the car & parked, her eyes fluttered open. darn.

we strolled on in and met up with our party. andrea’s sweet mom and brother jason were there. her friend nikki had her four kids with her and there was ollie, as well! so, little olive had some buddies to hang with.

her friends from college were there, claire {who coordinated the lunch}, jean, and megan. i sat by the ladies and chatted it up with them. it was great to get to know them better, i was glad to have met some of andrea’s closest girlfriends.

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[i love her hair…it’s so precious]

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[poor olive…the kids loved her so but were so aggressive with her // mia, ollie, olive, conner, chase, and camden]

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[andrea and nikki]

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[super bling!!! andrea’s huge rock]

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[i love the look on chase’s face. who loooooved olive, although olive wasn’t loving being in andrea’s arms]

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there were plenty of chips and salsa to devour. i was so hungry! i had such a busy morning with olive, that i didn’t eat breakfast and i always eat breakfast! i looked over the menu and zero’d in on the crab cake eggs benedict. oh yeah! the libations were free flowing on the table and i kept olive preoccupied with her snacks.

it was too cute. i brought olive over to the kids so she could hang out. um, they mauled her! they were loving her so much it scared her a bit! the kids were petting her hair, brushing her arms, pulling on her legs, smacking her cheeks, she was so overwhelmed! poor babes! i then had to pick her up for a bit to calm her down.

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[crab cake benedict]

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nikki’s son chase was crazy about olive. i mean crazy in love. he was soooo beyond sweet and loving towards her. he wanted to feed her the cereal snacks and he couldn’t stop gushing about how cute she was. he stayed by her side for the rest of the luncheon. he was so adorbs with her!

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[chase loved feeding olive]

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[megan, claire, jean, andrea, olive, me, and nikki]

after a relaxing lovely lunch, we trekked across the street to the palomar hotel and hung out by the pool for the rest of the afternoon. it was a perfect ending to a wonderful afternoon.

i was so honored to have joined andrea and her friends and family at this afternoon event. i love weddings…it brings everyone together and builds the most wonderful bonds! i am thankful to be able to experience such great moments in my life!

xoxo

sista kim’s bday brunch

it was my sister kim’s birthday! yay!

we had made plans to celebrate it at summer house santa monica. thuy headed over to our house, then we were going to kim’s place {where lan was meeting all of us} and then we finally took off to the restaurant from there! phew!

we finally arrived at our destination, after a few loop holes in travel. it was bustling inside…it was a lovely, warm day to be out. we were seated right away and got down to chatting. our subjects were so various, a lot of funny topics were discussed! of course, if you get a bunch of ladies together, conversations can get real and hairy 😉

we perused the menu…everything looked delicious but cocktails were in order! kim asked for a mimosa, thuy ordered the cucumber cooler, and i requested the malibu cooler.

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[summer house]

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[malibu and  cucumber cooler]

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[birthday gal!]

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[cheers to the birthday girl!]

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the server suggested for us to order the calamari as an appetizer, she swore it was fantastic. we were sold! out came the dish and is was deeeelicious! we noshed it down. we probably could have eaten two plates of that…so tasty!

we then put in our order, i wanted the egg sandwich with bacon. mmmmm {super healthy}. when my entree came, it came with a salad. helloooo. salad?? no thank you. i had asked for fries. yum yum. the server apologized and brought out a huge plate of fries…score!

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[amaze spicy calamari]

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[my egg sandwich]

after lunch, we walked around for a bit on armitage and then decided to hit downtown instead. thuy so graciously drove that day, so dt we went. we parked in our usual spot {bloomies} and started shopping. we hit our typical stores and did a lot of perusing. it was a perfect day to be out and about town.

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[cruising armitage]

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[the barbour store]

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[chilling]

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after mucho looking around, we were tired {ha! at least i was!}! it was time to go home. it was a fantastic day of great food, celebrating kim, shopping, and relaxing.

happy birthday day to my dear sister kim. i couldn’t be happier to celebrate the day your beautiful self came into this world! cheers to mom and dad creating you!

xoxo